To dream of abusing a person, means that you will be unfortunate in your affairs, losing good money through over-bearing persistency in business relations with others.
To feel yourself abused, you will be molested in your daily pursuits by the enmity of others.
For a young woman to dream that she hears abusive language, foretells that she will fall under the ban of some person’s jealousy and envy.
If she uses the language herself, she will meet with unexpected rebuffs, that may fill her with mortification and remorse for her past unworthy conduct toward friends. ... Ten Thousand Dream Interpretation
If you dream of being molested, it forewarns that an enemy will trick you.
If you molest someone in your dream, there will be negative results from not doing the right thing in a friendship situation. Obviously, dreams of being molested are also common among people who have experienced abuse in real life.... My Dream Interpretation