Unless we can say ‘no’ effectively, our ‘yes’ in life may be acquiescence rather than agreement. Therefore, saying no in our dreams is an important expression of our needs and ability to make decisions in face of disagreement. It is important to understand what it is you are saying no to, however.
A dream of you saying no or having someone saying no to you is about boundaries.
The dream can be suggesting that you set boundaries or that you need to open up and be more receptive.
If someone is telling you, “No,” then your dream is trying to get your attention to be aware of the boundaries other people are setting that you may have been ignoring. Consider the feeling tone of this dream to discern its significance. See Boundary.
1- To be aware of saying no in a dream may be an important part of our growth process. We are capable of making decisions which go against the wishes of other people, without feeling that we are going to be punished. We arc coming to terms with rejection and are no longer fearful. We are capable of standing on our own two feet.
2- The right to refuse is an important aspect of making choices. We may have no coherent reason for refusal, except the right to say no. In terms of relationships, saying no in a dream suggests that on some level we know what is right for us.
3- Saying no in spiritual terms entails rejecting that which is not compatible with our progress.